Any man can have sex, but few can bestow great sex upon a woman.
When it comes to pleasing women, variety and uniqueness perseveres. Women are not easily impressed by the effortless "dip
the stick" routine - any man can do that.
Women want a man who can spontaneously surprise them in bed. Good Lovers keep
their women guessing, and are in tuned to their sexual needs. Great Lovers bring an extra ingredient to the playing table
- the signature move.
The signature move is a spur-of-the-moment, passionate maneuver that can only be attached
to your name through the women you've dated or slept with. Every man should have one. It must be unique and well prepared;
you don't want to look like your reading it off a recipe book. Why should men have a signature move? Remember that women tell
each other every minute detail about who pleased them and how they did so, and you want your reputation to be on the positive
side of the scale. Other reasons for having the signature move include:
Remembrance. Even if the relationship
does not last forever, she'll always appreciate and remember your sexual skills.
Increases both your sexual pleasure.
You'll increase the chance of having sex with her again, perhaps without commitment.
The secret to mastering the
signature move, is to not overuse it. Remember that if you make a routine of the signature, it will become predictable and
take away from the excitement. Let your partner believe that you only practice the signature when you're really impressed
by her lovemaking skills. She will always be wondering if today is the signature day.
Let me share one of
my many signature moves with you. It involves adding some spice to the old, boring missionary position. I put a pillow under
my partners' butt before we have sex in the missionary position. The pillow tilts her in such a way that every thrust feels
a million times better, and she orgasms a lot quicker.
After she has her orgasmic experience, I turn her crosswise
on the bed, so that her head falls over the edge. I get up high so that my hips are above hers, and enter her very slowly
at a downward angle. I vary the length of penetration and the speed. All of a sudden, without warning, I stop mid-thrust and
enter her inch by inch for a few minutes. This little move gives my partner the most over-the-top-orgasms.
As you move
into position, slip one pillow underneath your partner, right where her back meets her butt. Let her adjust it until she's
comfortable, then thrust as you normally would in the missionary position.
Once you move her crosswise on the bed,
have her stretch out on her back across the bed, with her head and shoulders hanging over the edge. (For safety, make sure
she keeps as much of her back on the bed as possible). Enter her slowly and show some control when you thrust. You don't want
to knock her headfirst onto the floor.
Keep her guessing with your thrust. Pick a speed and stop - you can be inside
or halfway out or just have the tip touching her vaginal lips. Stare her in the eyes, pause for a few seconds, and resume
thrusting in slow motion, building back up to speed gradually.
Knowing your angles is the secret to mastering
penetration. When your penis slides in at just the right slant, it tickles her clitoris and makes constant contact with her
G-spot. Because the G-spot is on the front wall of her vagina, anything (pillow) that tilts her pelvis back makes G-spot contact
more likely. It also raises the clitoris, putting it in a better position to come in contact with the penile shaft.
you turn her head upside down, she'll feel a rush as blood pours in and oxygen is depleted. The head rush, coupled with physical
pleasure, will heighten the orgasm for some women.
Because predictability takes away from pleasure, you must keep
her guessing. Not to mention that too much of the same rhythm makes a woman go numb. When you stop and resume a thrust, it
builds on the previous sensation. Don't be surprised if your efforts produce more pleasure than you bargained for. And that
my friends is The Player's Signature move.